News: The Soul’s Choice, Karmic Growth, and Human Nature: Sam Wilkins Talks Purpose

Tuesday, November 12, 2024

The Soul’s Choice, Karmic Growth, and Human Nature: Sam Wilkins Talks Purpose

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Mark here. Here's what we have in store for this week...

WHAT I'M WRITING ABOUT

The Fear Wolf of Situational Ethics

Last night, as I stood watching the sun dip below the ocean horizon from my back deck, I began to reflect on the ethical challenges we face as leaders. The sea, much like life, can be unpredictable and unforgiving. It demands unwavering principles to navigate its treacherous waters.

I've seen too many good leaders fall prey to the siren song of situational ethics. They justify their actions based on desired outcomes, believing the ends justify the means. We have all observed political leaders do just that for far too long. And that's a dangerous path to tread.

In my years as a Navy SEAL leader and later as a CEO, I've learned that true leadership requires a moral compass as steady as the North Star. Situational ethics might seem pragmatic in the moment, but it's a slippery slope that leads to moral relativism and compromised integrity.

So, how do you cultivate a strong ethical foundation that stands firm in the face of any storm? It starts with clarity of purpose. You need to define your core values and principles – not just as words on a page… but as deeply held convictions that guide every decision you make. Your purpose (who you are) first defines your ethos (how you want to show up), and then the two define your choices (what you actually do).

But, you must have the courage to live that ethos, even when serious ambiguity sets in. In the SEALs, we learned to embrace discomfort physically, but more importantly also, as it applies to ethical leadership. Sometimes, doing the right thing means making hard choices that go against your immediate self-interest.

In the heat of battle, it's easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. However, ethical leadership requires that you always take the long view. Know that short-term gains built on ethical compromises lead to long-term failure.

As we face increasingly complex challenges in our VUCA world, the temptation to embrace situational ethics will only grow stronger. But I challenge you to resist that urge. Instead, commit to developing an unwavering ethical core that can weather any storm.

At the end of the day, when you're staring down the wolf of moral ambiguity, it's not your situational cleverness that will see you through. It's the strength of your character and the integrity of your team that will ultimately prevail.

Ethics is not about following rules, but about responding to the complexities of life with compassion and integrity.— Joseph Fletcher

NEW EPISODE - THE MARK DIVINE SHOW

Human Nature

Episode # 490

Sam Wilkins is the author of “Purpose: What Evolution and Human Nature Imply about the Meaning of Our Existence.” He is a committed mental health researcher who dives deep into the multifaceted realm of depression, untangling the varied threads of trauma, neglect, and stress, each weaving a distinct story of psychological tension. He makes clear the dual essence of stress, where short-lived challenges can fortify and uplift, building resilience and nurturing confidence. Wilkins's research and work are focused on the critical phases of childhood and adolescence, where he champions the need for environments of warmth and care, stabilizing young minds with nurturing love and support.

Podcast Highlights:

In this episode, Sam Wilkins explores the concept of the soul’s pre-birth choice, suggesting that souls select their lives to fulfill specific lessons and destinies, a belief rooted in many spiritual traditions, including reincarnation cycles in Hinduism and Buddhism. We discuss individualized challenges such as karmic growth, where life’s obstacles are seen as tailored experiences for spiritual development. Wilkins also contrasts success vs sustained Happiness, emphasizing the importance of meaningful relationships over material success for lasting joy.

--> Listen to episode #490 with Sam Wilkins.

WHAT'S INSPIRING ME

The other day, I dropped my wallet on my way to grab a cup of coffee at my local java stop. Luckily, someone at the shop noticed, picked it up, and handed it to me with a smile. That simple act of kindness made my day. It reminded me that despite its challenges, the world is filled with people who care. This quick interaction inspires me to stay aware of others, give without expecting anything in return, and continue to believe in the goodness that is in everyone.

PRACTICE OR HABIT TO TRY

The Success Reflection: A powerful technique designed to help you draw strength and optimism from past achievements. Start by finding a quiet space, closing your eyes, and taking a few deep breaths to center yourself. Visualize a specific moment in your life where you felt grateful and thriving—whether it was achieving a personal goal, overcoming a challenge, or receiving recognition for your efforts. Immerse yourself in the feelings and sensory details of that moment: the sights, sounds, emotions, and the sense of accomplishment. Allow the positive energy from this experience to fill you up, and remind yourself that you have the inner strength to succeed again. Do this practice 3X this week to develop a stronger sense of resilience and optimism, enhancing your ability to tackle current challenges confidently.

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Mark Divine is a New York Times best-selling author, leadership expert, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and retired U.S. Navy SEAL Commander. He is also the founder and CEO of Unbeatable and SEALFIT.