News : “Eldest daughter syndrome” and the science of birth order

Tuesday, April 30, 2024

“Eldest daughter syndrome” and the science of birth order

April 30, 2024

"Eldest daughter syndrome" — characterized by intense feelings of familial responsibility, people-pleasing tendencies and resentment — is having a moment.

An illustration of four nesting dolls in a row in a blue background. In descending height from left to right, the dolls have faces descending in age, with the one on the far right in white diapers with hands clasped at the front. Compared with the other dolls' faces that look happy, the face of the doll on the far left looks sad. It is adorned with medals and a ribbon that says

Bianca Bagnarelli

But does birth order really matter? Here's what the research says. →

Essential news and guidance to live your healthiest life.

Get it in your inbox

Need help? Review our newsletter help page or contact us for assistance.

You received this message because you signed up for updates from The New York Times.

To stop receiving From The Times, unsubscribe. To opt out of other promotional emails from The Times, including those regarding The Athletic, manage your email settings. To opt out of updates and offers sent from The Athletic, submit a request.

Subscribe to The Times Get The New York Times app

Connect with us on: